Is It Time To Upgrade Yourself?

Are you happy with you? Are there some things you know you need to change so that you can be a better person, friend, daughter, son or parent? I do have a few changes I would like to make for the new year. 

1. Stop holding on to anger. I have a quiet temper and what I mean by that is …I will take, take, take and then BOOM. And once I’m mad I’m MAD and I will hold onto that anger dragging it into days, weeks and sometimes months.

 It’s not healthy to continue doing this and it’s a waste of time. I have already started letting things go. I will allow myself to be upset then maybe vent to a friend or write and then LET IT GO. 

2. Stop taking everything so personal. I’m a very strong person but I’m also sensitive. My feelings are easily hurt but I want to learn to ignore certain things and comments. Maybe the person meant to offend me..maybe they didn’t. 

3. Stop holding grudges. I’m a Scorpio and we tend to hold grudges like no other. 

I can stop speaking to someone for foreverrrrr. I forgive very easily but I don’t forget. I may even extend an olive branch to a friend that I lost this year that tried to come back into my life.

4. I want to travel more. Even if it’s just a weekend getaway 2 hours away. I have so many vacations planned and I am going to take them all! Going to New York is on my bucket list!

5. Visit my friends more. I definitely go out and see my friends but I’m introvert and I loveeee being at home. That’s going to change because all my friends and family are definitely going to start seeing more of me. 

That’s about it. We are all a work in progress and nobody is perfect.  I’ve already put some of my changes into motion and feel great about it. I’ll keep you updated. What things are you leaving behind in 2016? What new things will you bring to life in 2017?

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I Wish I Never Met You continued…

Hi Dolls and Gents! I bet some of you are saying wow where the heck have you been? Lol. I took a small break from blogging then I started other projects that kinda took up all my time. Anyway let me finish up my story of the once ‘perfect man’ that I had.  If you haven’t read the first part of Wish I Never Met you ..go back and read that first then come back so it will all make sense to you.  Continue reading “I Wish I Never Met You continued…”

I Wish I Never Met You

I need time to get myself together.”

Those were the words that were spoken to me when the love of my life broke my heart. So this post is going to be another true event that actually happen to me. I’m good now but after that breakup I was in a dark place. I had never had a guy in my entire life to break up with me. EverContinue reading “I Wish I Never Met You”

I’m Probably Too Weird For You

I hate wearing socks. I love to see a man walk off. I love peach cobbler without peaches. I don’t fancy chocolate too much. The only time you will catch me eating it is if I’m upset or stressed. I absolutely hate bottom drawers. I only use bottom drawers or cabinets if it’s the last option. The first thing I notice about people is their teeth and their shoes. 

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Treat Them Accordingly!

You can’t turn a f!ck boy into your husband and you can’t turn a hoe into your wife, so stop trying to force it. 

F!ck boy: A man who isnt about sh*t.  A man without a five year plan. He has nothing to lose. A loser. 

Hoe: A woman that is too loose in the booty. She has sex with men for her own personal gain or no gain at all. A slut.  Continue reading “Treat Them Accordingly!”

You are how you f!ck

The man is lying on his back and the woman is in a squat position. She is moving back and forth …grinding …up and down ..breasts in his face…nipples erect…

I consider myself a very sexual person. Most scorpios are, we can’t help it. We live, breathe and ooze sex. Think about all the scorpios you have ever dated, had sex with or if you are a Scorpio yourself you already know. Have you ever wondered what a sexual position says about you

Come on. Let’s talk about sex and stuff…

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So The Thrill Is Gone?

The thrill is not gone. You just got lazy and comfortable. I guess you think since you two have been together for so long he is not going anywhere. Or maybe you think your looks or bedroom skills got her on lock. Your screwed up thinking is what got you here in the first place. And you wonder why your woman or man doesn’t pay you any attention any more. Hmph. Let me tell you why and what to do about that.

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What Did You Say Your Name Was Again?


  We would go to the mall sometimes and he would say everybody looked different, like their faces were contorted. He once asked me were the people in the movies real people. It’s like at times he was completely zoned out. He could sit somewhere for hours and just stare at the wall. 

This is a true life story of mine. Just felt like sharing an experience I had with a man I fell in love with.  Continue reading “What Did You Say Your Name Was Again?”